so sorry I haven’t posted in a while but I haven’t really had anything to write about until now!
I have recently been talking with my best friend Lor and Star Shaw about boys! Lor and I both have a crush on two or three boys at the same time. I have a crush on two – GP and Papa John. Okay so he isn’t really called Papa John but that is the nickname my classmates and even himself uses. He is part italian so that name kind of stuck. Only Lor will really understand properly.
Anyways, back to the point. PJ was with me for the last two lessons of today because of a group for higher ability students of the year (RS). Him and I are part of that group you see but today was different because he was flirting with me.
PJ has previously admitted that he flirts with everyone but he doesn’t take it across 2 whole hours. At the end of the first lesson of RS, he was one of the last to leave and I was just standing holding the door. He stood next to me, smiled and rested his head on my shoulder. Now he would never do that when just being himself and flirting normally. Before this though, we were kind of flirting you could say but I think it was more on his part than mine. I went along with it because I think I like him back. After lunch was pretty much the same but at the end of the day, he walked with me to the gates and said “see you tomorrow” but he said it so sweetly it could have melted anyones heart.
After sharing this with you guys, I thought I would give you a few tips on how to know if you like someone or if they are flirting with you. So, here goes…
- Feelings when around them! Nervousness? Butterflies? Shy? These are just a few feelings you might have but there are other very similar ones. Everyone is different but these are some of the most common feelings.
- Their actions around you! If you find them near you often and avoiding eye contact, they might be shy and not quite ready but they are likely to like you. If they are one of those who likes to flirt with everyone and they are different around you, they might like you – only if it is a good different not a bad different obviously. For example, they could walk with you even if you are reluctant to let them!
- Speech! If they talk to you and they are trying to find out more about you, there is a good chance they will like you. Also if they are talking sweetly – as in not like they would to a normal friend and not nastily either – it is another sign!
Remember, the boy should make the first move not the girl. This is because if the girl makes the first move, the boy will be reluctant to reject so wait for them to ask you! This is the one main thing I have learnt about relationships in secondary school!
Also make sure you put your best friend first. Lor and me have a little saying I though I would share with you guys… Best friends before boyfriends!
I hope soem of these points help those of you out there wondering if you like someone or if they like you. If anyone has any other thoughts let me know in the comments section below. I would love to hear from you.
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